Evaluating Your Husband’s Support: Strengthening Your Relationship
The sun dipped low, casting long shadows across the garden. A young woman sat on a weathered bench, tears glistening on her cheeks. Her shoulders slumped, and a deep frown etched lines across her forehead.
Beside her, an elderly man sat reading, his face etched with the wisdom of years. Sensing her distress, he lowered his book and asked gently, “What troubles you, child?”
Her tearful gaze turned to him. “It’s my husband,” she confessed, a torrent of words spilling forth. She spoke of his flaws, his recent mistakes, and the frustrations they caused. The old man listened patiently, his kind eyes reflecting a deep understanding.
When she finished her passionate diatribe, he asked a seemingly unrelated question. “Tell me, child,” he said with a smile, “who is the servant in your house?”
Confused, she tilted her head. “What do you mean?”
He continued, his voice soft yet unwavering, “Who takes care of all the needs of your household? Who ensures your meals are prepared, your clothes are washed, and your home is maintained?”
The question hung in the air. A hesitant answer formed on her lips, “My husband, of course.”
The old man nodded. “And who provides for your sustenance, your clothing, and the security of you and your children?”
“My husband,” she said again, a flicker of recognition replacing her initial confusion.
He probed further, “Who listens to the endless complaints of the day, worries about everyone’s future, and shoulders the burdens without complaint?”
Her voice grew softer as she whispered, “My husband.”
He pressed on, “And who is the unwavering pillar of support during times of illness and difficulty?”
“My husband,” she answered, the weight of her words sinking in.
The final question hung in the gentle breeze. “Does your husband ever ask for payment for these services?”
“Never,” she replied, finally understanding the direction of his questions.
The old man smiled warmly. “You see, child,” he said, his voice filled with wisdom, “you’ve been so fixated on your husband’s shortcomings that you’ve overlooked his immense value. He carries a burden of responsibility on his shoulders, silently enduring hardship to ensure your well-being.”
He paused, letting his words sink in. “He is a teacher, guiding you and your children through life’s lessons. He is a protector, providing security and shielding you from harm.
He is a provider, working tirelessly to fulfil your needs. And most importantly, he is your partner, walking this path beside you, sharing your joys and sorrows.”
A tear escaped her eye, but this time it wasn’t tinged with frustration. “He bears his burdens silently,” she murmured, a newfound respect dawning in her eyes, “just to spare us pain.”
The old man nodded. “Indeed, child. A husband is a special gift, a blessing from above. He deserves your appreciation, your care, and your unwavering respect.”
He stood, his gaze firm yet gentle. “Remember, child,” he said, “marriage is a partnership, a journey shared through life’s storms and sunshine. Be his pillar of support, just as he is yours. Recognize his worth, and together, face the future hand-in-hand.”
The young woman stood, her heart lighter, her perspective transformed. As she looked towards the horizon, bathed in the warm glow of the setting sun, she saw not just her husband’s flaws, but also the depth of his love and dedication.
Call to action
Great loving ladies, barring some exceptional cases, husbands play a vital role in our lives. Therefore, try to give them special care and attention; you will enjoy their loving company. Husbands and wives are two sides of the same coin, both essential for their mutual well-being and for the future of their children.
From today onward, let’s resolve to end all misunderstandings to improve our lives. Life is very short, and we can choose to overlook each other’s small faults and wrong deeds. Those who manage to control their emotions during challenging moments are truly life’s winners.
Consider the families where children, parents, and friends are not receiving the care they deserve due to tension between husband and wife. Life can become very fragile in such homes.
Put your utmost faith in God and each other, and embrace the joy of a wonderful life together. This life is unique and cannot be recreated, so make the most of it.
